How can I possibly sort it out? Were you sleeping or ‘co-sleeping’ with him? Did he taste your breast milk? And for how long has this gone on? How did you set up your playpen time? What will this mean for us? If I discipline you can you still love me? And seriously, how damaged is a marriage prejudiced by boredom and over-eating?
Write something about yourself. No need to be fancy, just an overview.